Post by Eric Partaker
The CEO Coach | CEO of the Year | McKinsey, Skype | Bestselling Author | CEO Accelerator | Follow for strategy, company-building, and leadership development
Google studied 180 teams. The #1 factor in performance? Psychological safety. And it comes down to what you say in the moments that matter most. I’ve coached 650+ CEOs. The best communicators know Your words either open people up or shut them down. What not to say: ❌ "Why did you let this happen?" ❌ "How did you miss that?" ❌ "Just do what I asked." ❌ "You always do this." ❌ "Let's just move on." ❌ "That won't work." Most leaders have said at least one of these. Not out of malice. Out of pressure. But every one puts people on the defensive. The brain shifts from solving the problem to protecting itself. And after that, honesty stops. What to say instead: ✅ "What can we learn from this?" ✅ "Help me understand your concern." ✅ "I noticed this. Can we talk about it?" ✅ "I see it differently. Can I share why?" ✅ "What do you need from me right now?" ✅ "Thanks for flagging it. What's the next step?" Same situations. Different outcomes. The first set shuts people down. The second set builds a team that trusts you enough to tell the truth. Every leader gets these moments daily. The ones who get the language right build teams that run on trust, not fear. What phrase would you add to the list? Want a PDF of my Psychological Safety cheat sheet? Get it free: https://lnkd.in/eqmCawc6 ♻️ Repost to help a leader in your network. - - - P.S. Want my 16 best strategy frameworks? Get my Strategy Book in One Page for free: https://lnkd.in/ePPp9YUz