Rebecca Malotke-Meslin

Women's Leadership Coach & Speaker | Helping women in schools and non-profits to lead more confidently, authentically, and unapologetically.

Naperville, Illinois, United States

About

I’m on a mission to close the gender gap in leadership. Not by changing women, but by changing how leadership is defined, developed, and supported. After years in leadership roles at independent schools, I saw way too many brilliant, capable women second-guess themselves, burn out, or step back before reaching their goals. Not because they weren’t qualified, but because they were navigating systems never built with them in mind. So I created what I couldn’t find: a supportive learning space where women could build skills and confidence. I bring over 20 years of experience across education, sales, marketing, and nonprofit leadership. In every role I’ve held, one thing has stayed constant: I care deeply about people, relationships, and helping others grow into their potential.

Experience

  • Leadership Coach & Speaker at Pleasantly Aggressive
    Jan 2022 - Present · 4 yrs 7 mos

    Pleasantly Aggressive provides leadership coaching for early and mid-career women leaders working in schools and non-profit organizations through one-on-one coaching, leadership cohorts, and interactive workshops. Pleasantly Aggressive also consults organizations on how to identify emerging women leaders and make a plan to support them by eliminating barriers, reducing biases, and creating more inclusive spaces.

  • Confidently You: Women in Leadership Podcast at Enrollment Management Association
    Oct 2022 - Present · 3 yrs 10 mos

    Confidently You: Women in Leadership is a podcast that supports women working in independent schools who are or want to become leaders. The podcast is hosted by Lynne Macziewski from The Baldwin School and Rebecca Malotke-Meslin of Pleasantly Aggressive Coaching & Consulting. We engage in thoughtful discussions about our experiences as women leaders to demystify the path to leadership and provide valuable resources in our field. The podcast is sponsored by The Enrollment Management Association and is available on iTunes.

  • Director of Enrollment and Financial Aid at The Avery Coonley School
    Dec 2013 - Jul 2022 · 8 yrs 8 mos

    During my 8 years at ACS, I led enrollment, admissions, financial aid, marketing, communication, and DEI efforts. The Avery Coonley School is a dynamic and diverse independent day school for academically bright and gifted children in Preschool - 8th in Downers Grove, IL.

  • Host - Finding Common Ground at Naperville Community Television (NCTV17)
    May 2020 - Sep 2021 · 1 yr 5 mos

    Finding Common Ground is focused on important current events and how they impact our diverse population. We are many voices of one community, often with strong opinions on every side of an issue. Through courageous conversation, in the interest of discovering collaborative solutions, we hope to find our common ground.

  • Director of Admissions and Marketing at Da Vinci Academy
    Jul 2012 - Dec 2013 · 1 yr 6 mos

    Enrollment Management, Recruiting, Financial Aid, Marketing