Eugene, Oregon, United States
I’m the Founder & Executive Director of Survivor Revival Services, an organization created to support women and children navigating adversity. Within that work, I serve as a Divorce Strategy Advisor, supporting women through one of the most complex transitions of their lives. Divorce isn’t defined by filings—it’s defined by the quality of decisions made under pressure, often with limited clarity and competing demands, where each choice has lasting impact on both the family system and what comes next. For many women, those decisions aren’t made from a place of neutrality. Instead, they’re made in the aftermath of years spent trying to repair something that couldn’t be repaired—or in the shock of a reality they didn’t see coming. While amicable divorces exist, much of this work unfolds in more complex emotional landscapes—where grief, fear, shame, or coercion are present, and clarity is harder to access. At the same time, the legal process continues moving forward. Attorneys are essential to that process, but they are not responsible for guiding the emotional and cognitive load that shapes decision-making. Without that layer of support, women often spend significant time and financial resources trying to orient themselves within a system they don’t yet fully understand. That is where my work comes in. I bring strategic clarity to the process, helping women understand what’s happening, organize priorities, and move forward with decisions that are informed, efficient, and grounded—so they’re not reacting in overwhelm or defaulting to options that don’t fully support them or their children. As a result, attorneys are able to have more focused, effective conversations and can move cases forward with greater efficiency. Women are also able to use their legal and therapy sessions for the intended purposes—freeing up time, energy, and capacity to focus on the life they are actively building with greater autonomy. My work is offered through focused intensives or 3- and 6-month containers, providing personalized, holistic support throughout the process. Together, we build structure, identify the right supports, and prioritize what matters most—so women don’t just move through divorce, but step into what comes next with clarity and strength. If you’re navigating this process—or support clients who are—I’d be glad to connect.
Survivor Revival Services (SRS) is an organization focused on supporting women navigating adversity through both individualized strategy and community-based support. SRS is also the home of the Invisible Wounds Recovery Model, an art-integrated framework designed to make the often unseen impacts of abuse visible, understood, and shared. Within SRS, I work with women navigating separation and divorce through one-on-one strategy and structured group support, providing clarity, guidance, and continuity throughout the process and into the next chapter. My role as a Divorce Strategy Advisor is centered on helping women engage more effectively in the legal and relational aspects of divorce—bringing clarity to complex decisions, reducing overwhelm, and supporting outcomes that are both informed and sustainable for themselves and their children. Support is offered through focused intensives, 3- and 6-month containers, and divorce recovery groups, including spaces focused on post-separation abuse, coercive control, and co-parenting. These groups are supported by the Invisible Wounds Recovery Model, offering women a shared language for emotional, psychological, and relational harm while integrating creative expression into the recovery process. Together, this work supports women not only in navigating divorce, but in rebuilding with greater clarity, autonomy, and connection. SRS also serves as the foundation for expanded environments and initiatives designed to better support women and children across systems.
Too Beautiful for Earth (TBFE) is a dedicated, trauma-responsive bereavement space for women navigating infant and child loss. Created as an alternative to clinical settings or isolation at home, TBFE offers an environment for grief that honors both the depth of loss and the individual ways it is processed. The space includes a private bereavement room designed for rest and reprieve, as well as an art-based processing area to support expression beyond words. It is intentionally created to provide mothers with a place to step outside of daily demands and tend to their grief in a supported, non-clinical setting. TBFE also supports: • Small, intimate circles for grieving mothers • Memorial gatherings and ceremonies • Use of an infant loss memorial wall to honor and remember children Providers and families are able to utilize the space to create meaningful, personalized experiences that honor grief while supporting ongoing healing. Like FG, TBFE offers sublet opportunities for providers seeking a trauma-responsive, intentional environment to support their clients in ways that extend beyond traditional models of care.
Facing Giants (FG) is a multidisciplinary, trauma-responsive environment designed for mothers and children navigating adversity. The space was created to offer a child-focused, nervous system-aware setting that supports more relational, developmentally aligned care—while also expanding how providers are able to serve families in ways that traditional environments often limit. FG operates as a collaborative hub where clinicians, educators, advocates, coaches, and caregivers can sublet space to work with clients in a more holistic and integrated way. This model is designed to: • Expand access to supportive, child-centered services • Encourage cross-disciplinary collaboration • Reduce burnout often experienced in traditional healthcare and mental health settings In addition to provider use, the space is available for private mother-child sessions, small groups, and workshops. We actively partner with providers and community leaders to expand offerings for women and children, including trauma recovery, nonviolent communication, creative expression, co-parenting support, boundaries and body safety, and healthy relationship education. FG exists to support both the families navigating adversity and the professionals serving them—creating an environment where healing, connection, and innovation can coexist.
Peaceful Resilience Counseling (PRC) was a private practice I founded after working with women and adolescents in clinical settings, where my work increasingly centered on domestic violence and women’s issues. I transitioned my practice to focus exclusively on women navigating coercive control, relational harm, and the downstream impact on their children. Within a supervised clinical setting, I provided trauma-informed counseling focused on domestic violence, coercive control, and the impact on women and children. Over time, patterns became clear: many women were navigating active or post-separation abuse where the realities extended beyond what one-on-one therapy could address. Broader systems often misinterpreted or minimized harm, while children were left without adequate support—particularly within legal processes where dynamics of control, coercion, and harm are not consistently addressed in ways that protect against ongoing risk to women and children. These gaps had direct implications for maternal stability and child wellbeing, especially in high-conflict and custody-related outcomes. This led to a deliberate transition away from clinical practice and into building support systems that more effectively meet the realities women and children are navigating. I am no longer practicing or pursuing clinical licensure. This transition reflects a broader commitment to child abuse prevention, survivor advocacy, and child wellbeing—building support systems aligned with the realities, risks, and responsibilities women and children navigate every day.